On Liking Your Kids: Babies and Toddlers

I had an interesting conversation with a friend recently when she asked me how I feel thinking about welcoming a new baby girl into our lives. After some thought I answered that I know I'll love my daughter, but I hope I also like her as much as Mylo.

Real talk: Mylo was a challenging baby for me. He was loving in his own way but not particularly affectionate or attached to me until around 18 months. He had no real preference for me over his other caretakers or even relatives he saw occasionally. He was SOOO energetic but frustrated by his own immobility so although he was generally happy, he was exhausting for me to be around. And I was dealing with my own feelings of loosing my independence and my changing identity.

I feel like a switch flipped with him and also for me around the time he turned a year and half. It was as if instead of just loving him with motherly love, I started to really LIKE him as a toddler in a different way than when he was a baby. The toddler years have been far superior to the baby phase for me. He is such a fascinating little person, with his own thoughts, preferences, questions, and abilities. He has also become more attached to me and is able to express his love verbally which is so true to his personality. I love getting to know my son and have grown a deep affection and enjoyment of being around him. 

As I think about welcoming baby girl into our lives I'm excited to see what kind of baby and person that she will be. But I also have realistic expectations that although I'll love her from the start, it could take time for me to truly like being around her. And that's okay. 

Would love to hear your thoughts. Did you enjoy the baby phase or the toddler phase more?

#tbt: Construction for Change- Malawi

A little over two years ago, this was Jason and me in Malawi, shooting for Construction for Change in a community called Phalombe. We were there before construction began on a multipurpose building that would serve as classroom space and a community center for the Ekari Foundation.

Fast forward two years, and the building is up and running!

Two years ago, I saw a vacant lot in the place where this new building stands.  I stood in that very spot and was told about Ekari's plans for enriching the education of the entire community- not just the children. They were also intent on reaching those who weren't afforded educational opportunities while growing up- teaching adults to read, as well as offering financial and agricultural training. I loved seeing their wholistic approach.

Now, this community has HIV/AIDS awareness classes,  higher education prep programs, computer training and more- all because there is a building to house it in. I love getting to be a small part of the process to make this happen!

If you want to read more, check out the Construction for Change blog. 

A Very Northwest Wedding

Seattle Bride Magazine just published a couple of photos from Barclay and Mckenna's wedding that we shot at Kiana Lodge. They chose great shots (you can see their post here!) but there were a few more that I LOVED that they didn't use, so I wanted to share them here...

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Seattle Spotlight: Nordstrom Nail Bar!

I discovered something wonderful quite by accident the other day while wandering downtown on a Sunday morning. The newly remodeled flagship Nordstrom store has a "Nail Bar" right next to their coffee shop on the main floor. What's so special about that? Well let me tell you.

When you get there you can go wander the entire cosmetics and skincare floor and pick ANYTHING you want to use during your mani/pedi. That's right, any nail polish, any lotion or scrub...on the whole floor. I choose super fancy Dior nail polish and this fabulous champagne scented lotion from Fresh. It was luxurious, affordable and fun. Check it out.

Friday Roundup

Happy Friday! And Happy Mother's Day! Its going to be a beautiful weekend here in Seattle, I'm excited to soak up some sun and do some nesting -- baby girl will be here in THREE weeks! Eeek! What are you up to this weekend?

Still need a Mother's Day gift? 30/30 Project has you covered!

These videos are so mesmerizing to me. (ATTN: Jenny)

I'm not sure I'm brave to do something like this but I love this kitchen.

What to read this spring.

DIY pet photo pajamas!!

Amazing rainbow baby shower and FRIENDS themed bridal shower!

Indoor plant trends I'm loving.

Countdown to summer drinking begins -- baby is almost here! Cucumber ginger margaritas, yes please.

Decorating on a budget.

Here's to the '90's -- Disney + Titanic.

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Happy Birthday Audrey

I know it's a bit cliche to say that Audrey Hepburn is my favorite actress, but she's definitely at the top of my list. There really are so many reasons to love her. From her classic roles and iconic style to her humanitarian work, she was truly an amazing woman who used her iconic status to do good. Today would have been her 87th birthday.

While Breakfast at Tiffany's, Roman Holiday and Sabrina are wonderful classic movies, my favorite movies Audrey did are easily Two for the Road and Charade.

More importantly, I have a deep admiration for how Audrey chose to use her fame to promote causes she believed in. Audrey experienced UNICEF relief first hand as a child after World War II and her experience lead her to become a Goodwill Ambassador in 1989.  She spent the last few years of her life working tirelessly as an advocate for children around the world.



PS. Which Audrey Hepburn Character Are You? I got Sabrina :)

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Tea Party Baby Shower

Yesterday we celebrated baby girl with a tea party themed shower that my sister threw me here in Seattle! It was the perfect weather and the perfect group of women to celebrate with. I left the shower feeling so filled up with love and excited to introduce my girl to this incredible group of ladies that will help raise her. Here are some pictures!